Isaiah 57:15 tells us that God is "the high and lofty One that inhabits eternity, whose name is Holy." And yet, God who is high above everyone else, wants to dwell with a certain kind of people. Who are they? He wants to dwell with those who have "a contrite and humble spirit."
Do you want God to dwell with you? Do you want Him to fill your home with His presence? Then we must keep a humble heart. We can think we're great when we stand up for our own rights, harden our hearts, stay full of pride, and resist the desires of our husband. Sadly, our attitude not only pushes our husband away, but it pushes God away! God runs from pride, but comes running to the humble heart.
The word "contrite" also means "crushed, bruised, broken in spirit and cast down." Don't despair, dear one, when you are going through this experience. But, remember, there is no excuse to stay in this state, because God has promised "to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite ones."
Psalm 34:18 says, "The LORD IS NEAR to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit."
Let's keep humble hearts today.
Love from Nancy Campbell
Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs
Is your burden heavy, is it weighing you down?
Do you no longer smile, all you wear is a frown?
Are you feeling stressed out? Your body’s in pain?
Are you confused, tormented, feel like going insane?
Hang on a minute! You don’t have to endure this strain,
There is a Burden-Bearer who will carry your pain,
He left the glory of heaven to come and die for your sin,
And carry your burdens, anguish, and sorrows on Him.
Give your heartache to God, He’s promised to carry it all,
To try on your own, you’ll only stumble and fall,
He’ll not only carry your burden, but sustain you too,
Holding you up in His arms to see from His point of view.
All you have to do is come to the foot of the cross,
Hand over your burden and all that is dross,
Give up your rights to do it your own way,
Trust your life to His hands and He’ll lead each day.
He is your Savior, Deliverer, your Resting Place,
Your Fortress, your Shield, and your Hiding Place,
Your Sustainer and Helper with everlasting arms
Who’ll carry you through storms and bring you to calm.
He is your Fountain, the fresh Eternal Spring
Who takes your sadness and makes you sing,
He is your Comforter, Healer, and He is the Dew
Who comes with His mercies each morning anew.
He is your Hope, your Refuge, your Song,
Strengthener, and Shepherd who carries you along.
He is Almighty God who bears your sorrow,
Give it to Him today, don’t wait ‘til tomorrow.
“Cast your burden on the Lord, and He shall sustain you;
He shall never permit the righteous to be moved”
(Psalm 55:22).
Love from Nancy Campbell, Above Rubies
Of all the animals in the world, God chose to liken His people to sheep and also to flocks. Psalm 107:41 says, "He makes him families like a flock."
In Ezekiel 36:38 He says that the waste cities will be "filled with flocks of men." God does not think of families as one or two children, but as a flock. A flock is more than one or two, isn't it? We need to have a God mindset, rather than a humanistic mindset.
Love from Nancy Campbell
We are living in a time when "evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived" (2 Timothy 3:13).
What do we do in the midst of deception and lies, especially when it comes right down from the White House? The Bible never leaves us in the dark. It tells us in the very next Scripture what we must do, "But CONTINUE thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; and that from a child thou hast known the holy Scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus." Read the whole passage from v.13 - 17.
We must continue more than ever in reading and imparting God's Word to our children, right from when they are little! The word "child" is "brephos" and means infancy. It is also used of a babe in the womb and a newborn babe. Our children must be steeped in the Scriptures from infancy so they can detect deception. Many people have no clue they are deceived because they don't know God's Word which is the plumbline for truth.
I notice that even many homeschooling children know more about movie and music stars than they do of the Word of God! Unless they know the Word, they won't stand strong for God in a deceived world. Instead, they will be sucked into the deception.
However, it comes back to us, mothers. It's our responsibility! How did Timothy KNOW the Scriptures? Because of a faithful mother and grandmother! And we are still reading about them over 2,000 years later!
It wasn't mothers who were trying to make a name for themselves who were recorded. It was two women who were faithful to impart God's Word! Will you be recorded in history like them?
Love from Nancy Campbell
Do you feel as thou you don't have much strength to fight the battle against evil? In the nation? And sometimes it may even be in your home. Be encouraged.
Even with a "little strength" you can stand your ground. The angel wrote to the church at Philadelphia, "I know you have little strength, but you have OBEYED MY WORD AND NOT DENIED MY NAME" (Revelation 3:8).
Keep standing strong for righteousness. Never give in to evil. Never compromise. Do not tolerate what God hates. Never deny the holy name of God. Even with your little strength, you can be a voice for righteousness.
Did you know that God chose you before the foundation of the world to walk a holy life for Him (Ephesians 1:4)? God is with you to keep you standing strong, even with your "little strength."
Love from Nancy Campbell
It's not enough for us to know a few Scriptures of the Bible? It's not enough for us to rely on a Sunday sermon each week. God wants His words to dwell in us RICHLY (Colossians 3:16). He wants His words to LIVE IN US!
In other words, our children should not only hear God's Words from us, but they should SEE THEM LIVING OUT IN OUR LIVES (Psalm 40:3). His Word should show forth from our countenance and from the way we act and speak. This was the testimony of Lois and Eunice.
Paul writes to Timothy, "I have been reminded of your sincere faith, which FIRST LIVED in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded now LIVES IN YOU also" (1 Timothy 1:5 NIV). Can we make this our heartfelt prayer? That God Words will LIVE IN US and will therefore have such an impact upon our children and grandchildren that they will also LIVE IN THEM! Amen.
Love from Nancy Campbell
Do you remember reading the wonderful testimony of the Waller family in the last issue of Above Rubies # 86 (they serve the vineyard farmers on the West Bank of Israel)?
This last weekend Colin and I looked forward to attending the wedding of their daughter, Victoria to Aaron Hood. Everyone was invited to come for the whole weekend to Kenlake State Park in Kentucky. We did not know the exact time the wedding would take place. It was to be a surprise-- a picture of waiting for the Heavenly Bridegroom who comes for His bride, but we know "neither the day nor the hour" (Matthew 25:13).
Colin and I drove up Saturday morning, thinking they surely wouldn't have the wedding before then! However, we arrived to find we missed the wedding! They blew the shofars in the night and the wedding was held at midnight, down by the lake in the moonlight--a glorious two and a half hour ceremony! We were slumbering and sleeping in our bed at home when the cry came, "Behold the bridegroom comes, go ye out to meet him" (Matthew 25:6)! Can you believe it? We missed!
However, although the ceremony was at midnight, we learned they were going to have the wedding feast at 3.00 pm on Sunday. We drove home again Saturday, and then drove up just in time for the feast after our Sunday service. We were glad we could at least be part of this wonderful celebration.
Love from Nancy Campbell
This was Serene's recent post on TRIM HEALTHY MAMA, but I thought you may like to cash in on what's happening in our neck of the woods...
How are all my THM Sistahs? Is your summer season shaping up well? Yes, the pun was intended… it thrills us to pieces to hear about how far and wide the message in our book is reaching and of the fantastic shape ups that are happening all over THM Nation.
As we mention in the book, Pearl and I live in rural Tennessee. Our children’s summers are all about creek fishing and swimming. Pearl and I take our children to our local fishing/swimming hole and sit in the shade together. We keep busy praising all their aquatic acrobats, (some more graceful than others) and cheer on the fishing experts as they reel their beauties back to shore. In between this wonderful splashing chaos we try to get our noses back down to our research papers and writing material that we bring to the creek to keep all our sisters at THM in the know.
WHY CAN'T SHE GO IN THE BUSHES?
I have to tell on Pearl though. Yesterday a beautiful balmy breeze blew across the bubbling, cool creek. Earthy scents of mossy rocks and wet river grass and the intoxicating, almost magical fragrance of wild honeysuckle and jasmine vines danced around our happy gathering. I could have stayed all day accept for the fact that “Miss Princess prima donna Pearl” didn't want to go pee in the bushes and had to go home to her civilized toilet.
But, this is just a good example of how it takes all different types to make the world go around.
Trim Healthy Mama embraces all types of Mamas and approaches to food. There are lots of purists like me but plenty of relaxed short cut queens like my sister Pearl. You don’t have to be a “Granola Mom” to be a THM and it is even more an enjoyable and entertaining journey knowing that we are not all cookie cutters of each other. But, sometimes Pearl can drive me a bit nuts when she decides to leave me at the creek alone just for the loo and the way she uses her dreaded microwave! (Hey Pearl... love you heaps, mate!)
THE SNAKE FRIGHT!
However, I have some more news about my yesterday. I was in my room about to start my “Spew Session.” You know, the quick exercise routine I tell you about on page 558 of our book. I cinched up my vibram five finger shoes and checked for my proper form in our bedroom mirror as I began my set of jump squats for my "spew" session. In the upper corner of the mirror I noticed a reflection of the wall right next to me and a shadowy dark apparition that swung back and forth. The head of a huge snake… (did I mention HUGE) jutted back and forth, slithering down the pictures on my wall. Horror movie worthy!
An unconscious surge of adrenaline catapulted me into the air. I have never jumped higher in any of my spew sessions. If I was participating in the Olympic Games as a high jumper I may have brought home a gold medal and a world record jump.
Snakes are my creepy thing. I mean, I hate snakes! I would rather have seen a crocodile or huge guerrilla in my room than a slithering, slippery, SNAKE.
I screamed and shouted for all the children to run outside. I grabbed the baby, dashed outside and did a head count while dialing my husband’s number and sputtering about the snake.
My husband who was working an hour away told me to get my Dad quick (he lives close by), find the snake and kill it, or we would never sleep soundly again. Good news is that after much searching in my bedroom, the snake was found. It had slithered under my bed… Ahhh!
This summer in our county has been labeled as one of the worst in a long time for snakes. Our children love to run in and out to the trampoline and then in for a snack and then out to play with their puppy and then in again. I suppose with the door left open half the day it was a welcome mat for our snake.
My children who play outdoors so much (we make them wear big leather cowboy boots) and see snakes more than I do, were not as bothered by the whole fiasco. I am still checking behind every door and bed and even behind the toilet before I can relax enough to pee! But all this is just part of the fun of summer in the country and now that the snake is dead I can appreciate the funny side of it.
Love, Serene Allison
EVANGELINE--PEARL AND SERENE'S SISTER PIPES IN...
Serene does not know this.... but I came home from selling our organic produce at the best Farmer's Market ever and took the children and cuzzies down to the creek.
Well folks, there swimming in the water over to the rocks where Serene had been was a Copperhead! Being more of a kiwi (New Zealander) than my sisters, I did a "kiwi snake-terror freak-out" and called them all out of the water. The snake went under some rock where most probably millions of them live there!
The children couldn't care two hoots and went back in after I realized we were not all dead! Now... don't tell Serene this either, BUT, I just heard from my neighbor down the holler that they released Timber Rattlers into the Natchez Trace--a stone's throw or two from us!
ANOTHER SNAKE STORY FROM VANGE
Once my daughter went to the bathroom with a flashlight and came out saying there was something big and black in there. I went to look and there was this humongous snake doing the dance! Howard was away and I did not know what to do-- shoot, stab, or scream! If I shot, I would shoot the plumbing out of the floor, screaming would freak the tiny children all night, and I could only quickly find a broom to hold the thing at bay.
I called Serene's husband who grew up with snakes and he came a running. He stood there bewildered, as I was, with the huge thing continuing to do its dance.
We decided to stab it with a sword so we would not destroy the plumbing. I held it with the broom and Sam stabbed and stabbed, then I tried stab - stab! Finally, we pierced the thing and I went to sleep safely. But I always, ALWAYS check bathrooms for snakes ever since!
God gives the prescription for health. Proverbs 16:24 says, "Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soil, and health to the bones."
Do you want to be healthy? Do you want your husband to be healthy? Do you want your children to be healthy in soul and body? Fill your home with pleasant words?
What are pleasant words? The Hebrew word means, "agreeable, beautiful, delightful, gracious, suitable, and sweet."
This is the way you build a healthy home.
Love from Nancy Campbell
Further to my post yesterday, there is more involved in the word building than meets the eye. The word in the Hebrew is "banah." Yes, of course it means to build. However, it also means to repair. We have to keep repairing things in our home or it will soon fall down around us. We also have to keep repairing our relationship with our husband and children. This is all part of the building program.
But, did you know that there is another aspect to building? This word also means "to have children." To build a home you must embrace children.
I love the blessing the people of Judah gave to Naomi about her daughter-in-law, Ruth, "The Lord make the woman that is come into thine house like Rachel and like Leah, which two did build (banah) the house of Israel" (Ruth 4:11).
How did Rachel and Leah build a nation? With hammers and wood? No, they built it by embracing children.
Here are some other Scriptures that speak of building by embracing children, Genesis 2:22; 16:2; 30:3; Deuteronomy 25:9; Psalm 127:1 and Proverbs 14:1).
Be a great builder as you build your home and consequently the nation.
Love from Nancy Campbell
Father, hear us, we are praying,
Hear the words our hearts are saying,
We are praying for our children.
Keep them from the powers of evil,
From the secret, hidden peril,
Father, hear us for our children.
From the whirlpool that would suck them,
From the treacherous quicksand, pluck them,
Father, hear us for our children.
From the worldling's hollow gladness,
From the sting of faithless sadness,
Father, Father, keep our children.
Through life's troubled waters steer them,
Through life's bitter battle cheer them,
Father, Father, be Thou near them.
Read the language of our longing,
Read the wordless pleadings thronging,
Holy Father, for our children.
And wherever they may 'bide,
Lead them Home at eventide.
~ Amy Carmichael
The above prayer is a heart-cry for our children. I would encourage you to print it off so you can pray it OUT LOUD to the Father. Don't just read it, but pray it.
Love from Nancy Campbell
As wives and mothers, we are in the biggest building program in the nation. We have the responsibility to build a strong marriage, a godly family, and children who will also grow up to build strong marriages and families. God calls us builders. Proverbs 14:1 says, "Every wise woman builds her house: but the foolish plucks it down with her hands."
Any builder who is successful in his business works hard. He works long hours. He sweats it out. It's the same for us. We don't build a great marriage and home by just dreaming about it. We have to work at it. We have to pray. We have to work at our attitude. We have to work at the way we speak to our spouse and our children.
But, we also have to be practical and work hard physically. We haven't got time to be lazy. We have to keep the home running smoothly. We have to make sure we prepare nutritious meals for our family. We seek to have a meal ready for our husband when he walks in the door--and we'll make sure that the house is tidied up and ready for his home-coming.
I remember a mother saying to me, "All I ever wanted was to be a wife and mother," and yet her marriage fell apart. She dreamed about it, but she didn't do what was needed to make it happen. Her life was wrapped up around herself.
Building takes forgetting about yourself and living to serve your husband and family. Your mind is on your job, not on gratifying your own fleshly desires. You constantly think of things to say and do to make your marriage stronger. You think of new and creative ideas to make your family life stronger
And as you build into your home, you also build for eternity.
Love from Nancy Campbell
Paul confessed to Timothy, "Thou hast fully known my doctrine, manner of life, PURPOSE, faith, longsuffering, love, patience" 2 Timothy 3:10).
Do you know your own purpose in life? Do those around you know your purpose? Without purpose we have no zest for life.
As a mother, we have no doubt about our purpose. God has chosen us to reveal His maternal and nurturing heart to the world. He has chosen us to diligently teach and train the children He has given us for righteousness and the destiny He has for them. We can wake up in the morning with a smile on our face and a spring in our step because we know what we are meant to be doing.
As I raised our children, God gave me a vision from 1 Thessalonians 3:23, "I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming our Lord Jesus Christ."
My purpose and vision was to not only minister to their bodies, but their souls and spirits, in order to present them WHOLE before the Father in eternity. Wow. This is certainly a full-time career. And what purpose!
Love from Nancy Campbell
Dear happy homemaker in both word and deed,
God’s purpose for you is to raise godly seed,
Obedient children who are righteous and pure,
With mother at home, they’ll be happy and secure.
Secure in God’s love and protected from the world,
Guarded from evil and grounded in His Word
By a mother who has embraced her calling divine,
The mandate God gave from the beginning of time.
You’re now planted at home, you’ve found your “glory,"
Left your career behind--that was another story!
You’ve now been promoted to a much higher career!
You’re in God’s perfect will so you don’t have to fear.
You’re nurturing, nourishing, and building your nest,
Under your husband’s covering, you’re totally blessed.
God has promised to provide, He is Jehovah Jireh,
He will always be faithful, He is not a liar.
You are an “arrow polisher," daily sharpening your arrows,
You’re not pecking on the ground like little sparrows,
But soaring like the eagle, your stature is high,
You’re changing the course of the nation as on God you rely!’
Dear mighty mother, stand up and be strong,
Don’t be fooled by the enemy and the worldly throng,
Don’t be deceived by the mindset of this society,
Embrace your motherhood, it is your highest priority!
Don’t be conformed to the humanistic trend,
It only leads to heartache in the final end.
Be a non-conformist, stand against the tide,
You don’t have to be governed by this world’s pride.
Instead be transformed by God’s living Word,
He is restoring His truth, will you be stirred?
Will you be part of this end-time restoration,
To train godly children and change the nation?
God is preparing a people for Jesus’ second appearing,
He wants an army of arrows, trained and unfearing,
Straight arrows to go forth from the parents’ bow,
The deceptions of Satan to overthrow.
May you experience God’s anointing and His daily renewing
As you become part of this revival which is all God’s doing.
You will be part of heralding the coming of the King
As you build God’s army–and His praises will ring.
~ Nancy Campbell
Malachi 4:5-6
God gives many blessings to those who walk in His ways. One of them is to prosper.
God says in Deuteronomy 28:11 that "The Lord will make you ABOUND IN PROSPERITY" (NKJV, ESV). Praise God. We all want to prosper, don't we? However, God's idea of prosperity is often different to ours.
The first blessing of prosperity that He states is that He will prosper us "in the fruit of your womb." This is No. 1 prosperity in God's eyes. In fact, He not only wants to prosper, but to ABUNDANTLY prosper the fruit of our womb (NIV, HCSB). The NCV translation says, "The Lord will make you RICH. You will have many children."
He then goes on to say that He will also make us prosper "in the fruit of your livestock and in the fruit of your ground." These blessings, of course, are to provide for the No. 1 prosperity, which is the fruit of the womb.
Love from Nancy Campbell
Zephaniah 3:17 tells us that God rests in His love toward us. The Hebrew word for rest in this Scripture means "to be silent, to hold your tongue." The same word is translated "hold your peace" or "hold your tongue" 30 times in the Bible. When God forgives us from our sin and cleanses us with His precious blood, He remembers our sin no more. He doesn't keep accusing us or bring it back to remind us.
God wants us to enjoy this kind of love in our marriage relationship, too. It's so easy to accuse. It's too easy to retort back. It's so easy to bring up past experiences. But, does this bring rest in your relationship? No. It only brings more nervous tension. It raises the blood pressure.
Instead, God wants you to enjoy His RESTING love. He wants you to rest in each another's love instead of answering back and having to have the last say.
Other translations say, "quieting love" (ESV), "calming love" (CEB, NLT, WEB), and "renewing love" (NET, GWT, RSV).
Will you ask God to help you be silent and "hold your tongue" today? No more retorts! Let me give you a secret. It will bring rest instead of stress!
Love from Nancy Campbell
Choose one of these positive statements to confess out loud today. Write or type it up in bold letters to pin up in your kitchen to remind you.
I am liberated and anointed to be the person God created me to be. I am deaf to accusations and dumb to my accusers.
I am helping to prepare an army of invaders who will fill this land with God's glory.
I am reporting for duty each morning to the King of kings.
I am making my home richer each day, not with material goods, but with lasting treasures.
I am no longer floundering for I have a purpose.
As a mother, I determine the destiny of the nation.
Be encouraged, dear mother. There is no career that has the backing of God more than motherhood.
Love from Nancy Campbell
Keep confessing the truth, dear mother. You are doing a great job as you nurture and train your children. You are determining the destiny of the nation.
I am proud to be called a mother.
I am shining God's light into the dark places of my home and society.
I am a peacemaker, speaking peace in the midst of chaos and trauma.
I am raising children to be Truth Lovers and Truth Speakers.
I am a society changer.
I am filling my home with everything that pleases the Lord and throwing out everything that displeases Him.
What one are you going to confess today?
Love from Nancy Campbell
Continually confess your trust in God. It is not enough to believe; you must also confess!
The Bible says, "I believe, and therefore have I spoken" (2 Corinthians 4:13). If you don't confess, your belief is not worth anything.
Here are some more affirmations for you today.
I am walking in the power of the cross of Jesus which is greater than my feelings, greater than my circumstances, and greater than the temptations of this world.
I am drawing from God's inexhaustible well that never runs day.
I am praising God in the good times and the bad.
I am learning to trust God more and more.
I am investing in that which will last forever.
one more.
Love from Nancy Campbell
Are you confessing these positive affirmations each day? It's a good idea to take the one that speak to you the most, print it out in BIG AND BOLD letters, and pin it up in your kitchen, or your bathroom, or wherever you can constantly see it.
I am employed in the most important career in the nation.
I am a faith-defender and I am training my children to be the same.
I am training valiant warriors, not wimps!
I am raising God-fearing children.
I am doing a great work as I sharpen and polish my arrows. I don't have time to come down to my adversaries.
I am walking in front of my children, inspiring them to all that God has for them.
Love from Nancy Campbell