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Through the weekly and daily devotionals you can be constantly encouraged in your great role of parenting, the highest career in the nation. You can also stay updated on what's happening with the Above Rubies ministry.

The vision for Meat for Men — UNCOMPROMISING MANHOOD blog is to encourage husbands, fathers and single men in Biblical manhood.

THE INESTIMABLE VALUE OF THE CHRISTIAN HOME

ChristTheCenterA message to all fathers and mothers on the VALUE of a godly home:
 
Today, I am sending you a message to all fathers and mothers from my husband, Colin, about the VALUE of a godly home.
 
THE INESTIMABLE VALUE OF THE CHRISTIAN HOME
 
Home is meant to be a place where we experience first-hand the love of a devoted wife and mother. Every child needs a fulltime mother. She understands that mothering in her home far surpasses all other careers. It is her No. 1 career.
 
God ordained the home to be the No. 1 place where all Christian families are to be lovingly nurtured by their mothers (Psalm 128:3 and Titus 2:3-5).
 
• Every Christian home needs a husband and father who will do his very best to demonstrate his love for his wife and family at all times, especially in the home.
• Every Christian husband and father must have the revelation of the great value of homeschooling, home-loving, home-training, home-safety, and home Bible devotions. To this end, he must work willingly and diligently to protect and provide for all the needs of his wife and family.
• Tremendous pressure is put upon the stay-at-home mother to vacate the home. Therefore, all Christian men, and especially church pastors, should go out of their way to strongly encourage the stay-at-home wife and mother.
• Every husband should affirm his wife’s great value and worth in the home. This can never be underestimated.
 
I believe the nation is as strong as its homes and families. Often the home is vacant day after day from 8 am to 6 pm. Nurseries, daycares, and state schools (including private schools) cannot make up for a mother’s loving smiles, understanding, encouragement, training, and discipline.
 
• Without a mother, the home is nothing but an empty shell. The mother provides the loving atmosphere in the home.
• Without a mother in the home, the home is sterile and boring.
• Without a mother in the home, it becomes meaningless and without a rudder.
• Without a mother in the home, it loses its anchor and begins to drift to liberal ideologies and eventually crash on rocky shores.
 
Men, do not encourage your wife away from her nest of little ones. Even older children still need the stable guidance and security of their mothers in the home.
 
The socialists want woman out of the home. They want to destroy the value of the homemaker. Don’t be ruled by their deceptive ideologies.
 
COLIN CAMPBELL
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ARE YOU WATCHING AND PRAYING?

WatchPrayJesus said that the attitude of Christians in the end times should be to watch and pray. This speaks of alertness. To be honest, the church should right now be full of the most alert men in the world. This would be the case if "Christian" men would take the words of Christ to heart.
 
Jesus said in Mark 13:31-37, "Heaven and earth shall pass away: but my words shall not pass away. But of that day and that hour knoweth no man, no, not the angels which are in heaven, neither the Son, but the Father. Take ye heed, watch and pray: for ye know not when the time is... Watch ye therefore: for ye know not when the master of the house cometh, at even, or at midnight, or in the morning: lest coming suddenly he find you sleep. And what I say unto you I say unto all, WATCH."
 
The understanding of the Greek word for "watch" means "wakefulness, intent, and riveted to a certain thing."
 
Men, let's be alert and riveted to watch and pray for the great needs of this hour.
 
Be encouraged.
 
COLIN CAMPBELL
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THE FIRE OF DEVOTION TO CHRIST

firedevoTake time to Read Revelation 2:1-7. This word to the Ephesus church reveals that the fire of our “first love” to Jesus Christ is far more important than many other commendable things we may do for Christ—
our labor for Him,
our patience as we wait for Him,
our patience with one another,
our intolerance of those who do evil things,
our not fainting in the day of battle,
and even fact checking those who are going around the churches proclaiming to be apostles but are liars.
 
All of these things that are important and on which we place much emphasis fade into comparison to the question: Are we continuing to walk in the fire of our first love to Christ?
 
Our devotion and worship to Christ must come first. In this passage Jesus is walking in the midst of the golden candlesticks. He is attending and adjusting the fire on these candles so they will burn more brightly. He warns the Ephesus church that their candlestick is in danger of being removed because their love for Christ is not as bright as it should be.
 
“Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and REPENT, and do the first works, or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent” (v. 5).
 
We note that the first of the 10 primary commandments of God in Deuteronomy 6 is: “Thou shalt love the LORD thy God with ALL thine heart, and with ALL thy soul, and with ALL thy might.”
 
Again in Matthew 22:27, 38 Jesus says: “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with ALL thy heart, and with ALL thy soul, and with ALL thy mind. This is the FIRST AND GREAT commandment.”
 
Worshipping God is one of the greatest ways to express our love to God. We must never underestimate it. If we do not have “fired up” love and worship, we will have our candlestick removed. I am sure we don’t want this to happen.
 
Fathers, we must, along with our wives and families in our homes, greatly increase our loving worship to God. You can make this happen with your family worship time every day, not just once a week on Sundays.
 
Be encouraged.
 
COLIN CAMPBELL
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DO YOU STAND WITH GOD’S WORD?

JCalvin“A dog barks when his master is attacked. I would be a coward if I saw that God's truth is attacked and yet would remain silent.”
 
— John Calvin
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NEVER RETREAT!

JWesley“The militant church is one that never retreats but advances, conquering every stronghold of the enemy through prayer and perseverance.”
 
John Wesley
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NOT CRUCIFIED

Ravenhill“If Jesus preached the same message ministers preach today, He would never have been crucified.”
 
~ Leonard Ravenhill
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WHO WANTS TO BE MARRIED TO A HEDGEHOG?

HedgehogI don’t believe Christian couples should be like hedgehogs to one another. I mentioned this when speaking at the Above Rubies Family Retreat in Florida recently. A woman approached me and said that she and her husband were Mr. and Mrs. Hedgehog and could they both receive counsel about the matter.
 
Some Americans may not understand what I am getting at when I talk about hedgehogs as they are rare to USA. They are cute, nocturnal, little animals found in Europe, Asia, Africa, and in our land of origin, New Zealand. Although they may look innocent enough, you need to be very careful around them because they are covered with spines that are very sharp indeed. When defending itself, a hedgehog rolls up in a ball, exposing its 5,000 to 7,000 sharp spines! And they can do it so quickly, within a second!
 
You may be tempted to pick it up or even kick it out of the way, but you had better make sure your hands and feet are protected. Growing up as a boy in New Zealand I was sometimes tempted to give hedgehogs a hard time because boys are naturally challenged by defiance.
 
Prickly people are difficult to be around and hard to live with. If you happen to say the wrong word, even sometimes by accident, they will quickly roll up into a ball of defiance and challenge you with their sharp words.
 
Who would want to be married to a hedgehog? Not me. Who would want to live in a family of hedgehogs?
 
All true Christians are blessed to have a new nature, the life of Jesus Christ living inside of them. Sad to say, many still allow the old prickly nature, inspired by the old serpent, the devil, to usurp itself. The new nature that we have through Christ has absolute authority to resist, deny, and crucify the old prickly nature from rising up and hurting the ones to whom we should be loving and gracious.
 
This “hedgehog nature” is destructive. It is probably one of the main reasons why so many marriages are destroyed, and families break up. No one should feel they have to walk around their spouse on eggshells! Just one wrong word and it’s another world war! May God have mercy on us. This is insane.
 
Is their new nature locked up in a closet somewhere?
 
Most Christians would say, “I would never deny Christ, not even if I was placed before a firing squad.” And yet, in everyday life, they lock Him up and hold Him back from manifesting His life to those around them. What hypocrisy.
 
Colossians 1:27 speaks of “Christ in you, the hope of glory.” It is high time for us to shut down the prickly, grouchy, old nature and release the glory of the new nature, which is Christ in you! What miracles it will bring about in your marriage and family life.
 
Matthew 10:33 says: “Whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven.”
 
When we deny Jesus Christ the right to reign in our lives and reveal His nature to those closest to us, our spouse and family members, we deny Him. When we deny His right to speak kindly and lovingly through us, we deny Him before our family members.
 
Do not feed the hedgehog spirit in your life anymore. Do not make it your pet. It will destroy you and everyone around you.
 
 
Be encouraged.
 
COLIN CAMPBELL
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UNFURL THE BANNERS OF TRUTH

Spurgeon“For the truth’s sake, and because the true God is on our side, let us in these modern days of warfare emulate the warriors of Israel, and unfurl our banners to the breeze with confident joy. Dark signs of present or coming ill must not dishearten us; if the Lord had meant to destroy us, He would not have given us the gospel.”
 
~ Charles Spurgeon
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NEVER GIVE IN TO TYRANNY AND LIES

AlexSolzhenitsyn"The simple step of a courageous individual is not to partake in the lie. One word of Truth outweighs the world."
 
~ Alexander Solzhenitsyn
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PRAYING FOR ISRAEL

PrayIsraelHave you heard about the Isaiah62 prayer and fasting for Israel. It began yesterday, 7th May and will continue until 28th May.
If you have not heard about it, we would encourage you to check it out at the following link:
 
 
There are now 500 million Christians worldwide who have committed to pray for Israel for the next three weeks. This is an incredible thing and could only be orchestrated by the hand of God. It would be sad to not be part of what God is doing in this hour.
 
We would encourage you and your family to become part of this prayer commitment which obviously God has ordained. Check out the link, learn more, and also how you can effectively pray for Israel.
It is called Isaiah 62, coming from Isaiah 62:6, 7: “I have set watchmen upon thy walls, O Jerusalem, which shall never hold their peace day nor night: ye that make mention of the LORD, keep not silence, And give him no rest, till he establish, and till he make Jerusalem a praise in the earth.”
 
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Colin and Nancy Campbell
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GOD'S MEGAPHONE

CS Lewis"Pain insists on being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our consciences, but shouts in our pains. It is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world."
 
~ C. S. Lewis
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WE DESERVE IT...

t jefferson"The goverment you elect is the government you deserve."

~ Thomas Jefferson

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FRIENDSHIP WITH THE WORLD IS ENMITY WITH GOD

TomAscolquote"The evangelical church has largely failed to be the Church Militant. We are in a war. If you don't understand this, when the bullets start flying, you will say 'we've got to be nicer,' 'we've got to be more relevant.' That's simply wrong-headed. This world is not our friend.
 
~ Tom Ascol
 
"Know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God"
(James 4:4).
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PLAYING CHURCH?

Ravenhillquote"I'd rather have 10 people that want God, than 10,000 people who want to play church."
 
~ Leonard Ravenhill
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TAKE RESPONSIBILITY MEN

TakeResponsibilityIt's wrong for men to sit back and let their wife take all, or most of the family responsibilities. Men should help when needed. They should give godly advice and discipline when needed. They should also take their responsibility to lead the family in daily Family Devotions.
 
~ Colin Campbell
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BIBLE CREDIBILITY...

BibleCred
"The credibility of the Bible has never been at this level."
 
~ Tommy Waller, speaking of the fulfilment of Bible prophecy in Israel.
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THE PERFECT CHART

ThePerfectChart“We believe that the Bible, as written in the original Hebrew and Greek languages, is the very word of the only wise and the only true God, with whom one day is as a thousand years and a thousand years as one day, who saw the end from the beginning, and not only the end, but every stage of the way.
 
We therefore hold it to be nothing short of a positive blasphemy to assert that we have arrived at a stage of our career in which the Bible is not sufficient, or that we are compelled to travel outside of its covers to find ample guidance and instruction for the present moment, and for every moment of our earthly pilgrimage.
 
The Bible is a perfect chart in which every urgent need of the Christian mariner has been anticipated. Every rock, every sandbank, every shoal, every strand, every island, has been carefully noted down. All the need of the Church of God, its members, and its ministers, has been most fully provided for.
 
How could it be otherwise if we admit the Bible to be the Word of God? Could the mind of God have devised, or His finger sketched an imperfect chart? Impossible. We must either deny the divinity or admit the sufficiency of The Book.”
 
~ Charles Henry Mackintosh (1820 – 18906).
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DO NOT LISTEN FOR A MOMENT...

MacintoshQuote“We cannot listen for a moment to men, however profound in their reading and thinking, who dare to treat God’s book as though it were man’s book, and speak of those pages that were penned by the All wise, Almighty, and Eternal God, as though they were the production of a shallow and short-sighted mortal.”
 
~ Charles Henry Mackintosh (1820 – 1896).
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TELL HER SO

TellHerSoAmid the cares of married strife
In spite of toil and business life
If you value your dear wife—
Tell her so!
 
When days are dark and deeply blue
She has her troubles, same as you
Show her that your love is true
Tell her so!
 
Don’t act as if she’s past her prime
As tho’ to please her were a crime
If ever you loved her, now’s the time—
Tell her so!
 
She’ll return for each caress
A hundred-fold of tenderness,
Hearts like hers were made to bless;
Tell her so!
 
You are hers and hers alone;
Well you know she’s all your own;
Don’t wait to carve it on a stone—
Tell her so!
 
Never let her heart grow cold
Richer beauties will unfold
She is worth her weight in gold
Tell her so!
 
~ Unknown
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TO LOVE ONE ANOTHER...

NotCommanded“We are not commanded to agree with one another but only to love one another.”
 
~ Colin Campbell
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