Marriage | How Can I Help My Husband?

How Can I help my husband?

1. I help him by coming alongside to help him as he needs me.

2. I help him by speaking sweetly, kindly, and positively into his life.

3. I help him by reminding him every day that I love him.

4. I help him by fulfilling the role that God has given to me rather than competing for his role of provider and leader of the home. I don’t help my husband by taking his responsibility. This undermines his manhood.

5. I help him by caring for our children and making our home a place of joy and peace.

6. I help him by making life easier for him to do his work.

7. I help him by being a sounding board for his dreams and visions for life.

8. I help him by caring for him physically and nutritionally.

9. I help him by having an aroma-filled, nutritious meal ready for him when he returns to home at the end of the day.

10. I help him by having the home ready for him when he arrives home—toys and mess cleaned up and thrown out of sight!

11. I help him by being excited to see him when he arrives—even if I have had a lousy day!

12. I help him by being available sexually to him. I was created to be “one flesh” with my husband, to delight him rather than deprive him.

Nancy Campbell
www.aboverubies.org