Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs

"The one concern of the devil is to keep the saints from prayer. He fears nothing from prayerless studies, prayerless work, prayerless religion. He laughs at our toil, mocks at our wisdom, but trembles when we pray."

~ Samuel Chadwick

Why don't we pray more?

I will now continue my series on Biblical Fatherhood.

Psalm 23:5 says, "Thou anointest my head with oil." The Bedouin shepherds of the Middle East evidently anointed the heads of their sheep, possibly to stop parasites and ticks or as a healing balm for wounds caused by the sun or insects.

Men, As God's shepherds, we also need to have anointed heads. We also need to anoint the heads of our family. The head is the place where we think and from where we speak, see, and hear. Therefore, it is imperative that our heads are anointed with the oil of the Holy Spirit.

If the enemy of our souls can invade our heads, he can effectively destroy our usefulness for God in this world. It is the anointing that the devil cannot stand. The anointing provides us with protection and power.

To be continued.

Be encouraged,

Colin Campbell

Our Christian homes must become the educational centers where the whole family is forever learning what it means to rejoice in the truth.

Men, we must make our homes the bastions of truth. We must  make our homes a place where we nurture the love of truth until it becomes a blazing and all-consuming fire.

The home is the true foundation of the nation where, from the womb to adulthood and even beyond, we teach our children to be lovers of the truth. We magnify truth and rejoice in it.

Our homes desperately need role modeling fathers and mothers who so love the rejoice in the truth that our children, as well as our neighbors, will be affected by it.

~ Colin Campbell

We Christians are New Testament priests and kings unto God (Revelation 1:6). As such we are privileged, with our families, to eat at God's royal table just as Mephibosheth, the crippled lame son of Jonathan was privileged to eat at King David's royal table until he died (2 Samuel 9:3-8).

Fathers, when we read the Scriptures and pray and worship together at the conclusion of every family meal, we turn our ordinary table into a royal table where we dine with the King of Kings and Lord of lords.

~ Colin Campbell

Keep your minds CLEAN AT ALL TIMES! It is one thing to say we believe in love that "thinks no evil" but it is quite another thing to role model this love before our family.

Evil thoughts can not only be thoughts of anger, resentment, and retribution, but also thoughts of impurity, lust, envy, jealousy, and selfishness. Evil thoughts can be triggered by what we watch, read, or listen to. For these reasons we must be careful about the company we keep, the movies we watch, and the literature we read.

Our friends and acquaintances may think a movie is harmless, but the truth is, the love of God that is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit "thinks no evil."

Men who call themselves Christians, but watch porn, whether occasionally or frequently, cannot role model God's love to their wife and family. They are deceived if they think they can for they have adulterated and diluted the pure love of God that "thinks no evil." God's love flows only through CLEAN HEARTS AND MINDS that have not been defiled by the evil of lustful pornographic movies or literature.

Men, we dare not fool ourselves. Our wife and family deserve the best from us.

~ Colin Campbell

Being a peacemaker is not easy! It requires much patience. You have to hear both sides of the story and it often takes time for hardened hearts to soften. The peacemaker must always keep a humble attitude otherwise he will not gain a listening ear. Sometimes drastic measures have to be taken, but it should always be as a last resort. You can't be a good peacemaker if you are impetuous and rush into making a decision without taking time to think the matter through.

If things have been out of order in your marriage or family life for any length of time, do not expect things to change too quickly. Begin Family Devotions on a daily basis and encourage each family member to pray. Praying together helps to bring peace to your home but don't be disappointed if it takes time. When you start an exercise program you would be crazy to believe that you will reduce your unwanted weight overnight.

To bring peace to a troubled marriage takes time, work, earnest desire, as well as a teachable and humble spirit. It may cost the peacemaker a lot in order to bring true lasting peace. Colossian 1:20 tell us that Jesus "made peace through the BLOOD OF HIS CROSS." If it cost our Savior, the greatest of all peacemakers, His own precious blood in order to bring us into peace with God, should not we men who have found this peace be prepared to sacrifice our time and effort to bring peace to our marriage, home, family, neighbors, and nation?

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

"Satan trembles when he sees

The weakest saint upon his knees."

~ William Cowper

One of the biggest enemies of fathering children is anger. It results in much damage to the psychological and spiritual lives of wives and children.

No wife or children should have to walk around on egg shells in the home because of fear of upsetting the husband.

Shouting, bad language, extreme facial expressions, slamming doors, and pounding fists should never be the testimony of a godly husband and father. It destroys godly role modeling.

~ Colin Campbell

"The worst sin is prayerlessness."

~ Peter Taylor Forsyth

Proverbs 4:18 says, "But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day."

Are you walking in the MORE AND MORE pathway? Does your face shine? Are your children's faces shining MORE AND MORE? Or, are they somewhat clouded with shadows of darkness?

It's your responsibility to lead them MORE AND MORE into the light.

~ Colin Campbell

"Prayer is not overcoming God's reluctance; it is laying hold of His highest willingness."

~ Richard French

Fathers, there is only one thing in all creation that resists darkness and that is the light. Both forces are at war with one another.

Jesus said in John 8:12, "I am the light of the world" and in Matthew 5:14 He says to us, "You are the light of the world."

As far as God and heaven are concerned, there is no other true light apart from His people. If we do not shine brightly, gross darkness will increase. Shine your light, first in your home, and then when you go out into your workplace.

~ Colin Campbell

Fathers, do not abdicate your responsibilities to your own flesh and blood. Be careful not to speak too harshly to them. Don't be too critical of them. Seek to be their best friend. Kind and loving words always win the day.

~ Colin Campbell

Our Savior, Jesus Christ, was 42 generations from Abraham. He was "the seed" in the loins of father Abraham 42 generations before He was born.

Fathers, you do not know what powerful seed may be within your loins that could greatly influence the world for righteousness, even in FUTURE GENERATIONS.

Every child we stop from coming in this world, not only deprives the world of a child who has the potential to become a powerful influence for righteousness, but also deprives the world of future dynasties.

~ Colin Campbell

Fathers, never be too busy to take time for your children. Take time  to communicate. Show a genuine interest in all they are doing. Go places with them. Play with them. Have fun with them. Tell them stories. Give loving discipline. Daily teach them from the Bible. Pray with them. And pile upon them heaps and heaps of encouragement.

~ Colin Campbell

"Nothing brings such leanness into a man's soul as lack of prayer. It is well said that neglected prayer is the birthplace of all evil. All good is born in prayer, and all good springs from it. But if one neglects his closet, then all evil comes of it. No man can progress in grace if he forsakes prayer."

~ Charles Haddon Spurgeon

If we don't discipline our children when they require it, we will be disciplined instead. It will come back on us to torment us. There is no rest and peace in the home with undisciplined and rebellious children. Proverbs 29:17 says, "Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul."

~ Colin Campbell

"To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than being alive without breathing."

~ Martin Luther

Allow the Holy Spirit to pulsate your heart and mind. Put a smile on your face. Love on your wife and children. When everyone else is glum, be joyful.

~ Colin Campbell

Exodus 25:30 says, "And thou shalt set upon the table shewbread before me always." The bread upon the table was called by many different names.

1. SHEWBREAD.

"To shew" means "to tell forth or declare" speaking to us of the New Testament Bread of Life who showed Himself to His disciples (Matthew 16:21; John 21:1-2; Acts 1:3). Jesus Christ, who is the true Bread of Life, still wants to show Himself to our families and to feed us with His Word. We remember that Christ revealed Himself at the table to two of His disciples as He broke the bread (Luke 24:28-32).

Jesus Christ loves to show Himself at meal times. In Revelation 3:20 He says, "Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me." In the Greek, the word "sup" is the word that is used for the chief evening meal of the day where we "supper" together and fellowship as a family.

How sad it is when Christian families do not invite Christ to their family meal table. How sad when they do not open up the Word and "sup" on it together on a daily basis. Instead, Christ is left standing outside knocking.

2 Chronicles 16:9 says, "For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth to SHOW HIMSELF STRONG in the behalf of them whose heart is perfect toward him."

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell