Above Rubies Daily Encouragement Blogs

Remember this, whatever authority you give away, can be most difficult to regain. And yet, it can be regained if we wake up, stand up, and fight to get it back.

Men, God has invested in you authority to govern your own life and family. Your submissive wife is your partner in this government. We must not be blind to the reality that there are sinister forces in this world who seek to undermine your right to govern yourself and your family. As fathers, we are responsible to God. We will give an account to God for how we have used or misused our authority of fatherhood.

Many fathers, through ignorance or neglect, have abdicated their fatherhood authority to their wives. This is not fair on them, for they are mothers, and not meant to be fathers.

Many Christian fathers have not seriously thought through the implications of state government education and the undermining effect it has on our children's moral values, as well as traditional Christian cultural values. Men, we abuse our roles as Christian fathers by ignorantly allowing the state to mold our children's values. I say these things because the state system is a hotchpotch of values, many of which undermine the values which God Himself has invested in the government of fatherhood.

The Apostle Paul states in Romans 6:16, "Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?" God is the prototype of all fatherhood and He wants His fatherhood, leadership, and governmental authority expressed through each father.

Father, on no account surrender your fatherhood to others who think they have more right to it than you do!

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

May you have a blessed Christmas together as a family.

Men, we must never under-estimate the importance of our family values. Our home and family values are the most important foundation blocks of our nation. As Christian men, we must constantly remind ourselves and our families, that the way we order our lives and conduct in our home, whether it be inside or outside the home, is no one else's business, but our own!

So long as Christian parents do not abuse or neglect their family, we parents have our God-given constitutional rights to raise them as we believe God would have us raise them. We are not in any way bound to raise our children according to the dictates of our ever intrusive government, self-important worldly-wise media, or even our liberal out-of-touch with God and His truth local church. No well-intentioned neighbors, public child care services, or state school system have the God-given right to over-ride or undercut our biblical values for training our children. We must stand up for our rights to teach and train our children in the biblical and traditional moral values of conduct and character.

Fathers, we must stand our ground on all family values as mandated in God's truth. If we find out that the state school system, or any other system, is undercutting our parental authority by teaching our children values that we know are not biblical, but rather in opposition to the Bible, we must take charge and correct the situation or remove our children completely.

The state does not own our family values. Never ever!

Men, we can thank God that despite all the attacks on traditional family values in America that there are still millions of people who are prepared to stand up and make their voice heard and oppose those who try and force their liberal agenda upon us.

They liberals want us to shut up, bow down, and let them run over us like timid little lambs. Thank God, it is obvious that they had better think again for we are not going quit, ever. The Chick-fil-A people took their stand against the homosexual agenda and millions of good people rallied to their cause. If I remember correctly, the Chick-fil-A backed down a little under pressure. I personally, along with multitudes, felt let down. I hope that the Duck Dynasty folk will not ever back down. Nobody should ever have to back down from saying that those who practice sins that are clearly condemned in the Scriptures are damned or going to hell if they do not repent, especially if they are not saying it in a hateful way.

Phil Robertson was asked his opinion and he answered honestly. Whatever God condemns we must likewise condemn. Those who say we are not to judge others, quoting Jesus' words in Matthew 7:1, "Judge not that ye be not judged" are wrong when they think these words mean we should not express an opinion in opposition to moral sins such as homosexuality, adultery, or pornography.

In this particular context, Jesus meant that we should not judge people in a way that we would not wants others to judge us, e.g. unfair judgment and not knowing all the facts.

In John 7:24 Jesus said, "Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment." In 1 Corinthians 5:12 and 6:2-5 Paul instructs the Corinthian church to judge the matters concerning behavior in the church themselves rather than take the matters to the court.

As fathers, we need to instruct our children about these truths because men will use Scriptures out of context to support their argument for their sin. The Bible clearly gives us God's mandate regarding adultery, sexual promiscuity, and homosexuality. He wants us to affirm and speak out His ways in a loving and concerned way.

1 Corinthians 6:9-10 says, "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, not effeminate (male prostitutes), nor abusers of themselves with mankind (practice homosexuality), nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, thank God that there are still many who are concerned about the disintegration of the nuclear family. Thank God for men like Phil Robertson who was not afraid to speak up against the practice of homosexuality, as well as other forms of immorality that the Holy Bible clearly condemns. Does this mean that he hates homosexuals? I think not. If anyone were to speak up against certain foods that cause disease, cancer, diabetes, etc. does this mean they hate the people who eat these foods? I think not.

The truth of the matter is that homosexuality and adultery are an attack on biblical and traditional values for family and marriage. The people who know very little about the Bible, in order to defend their lifestyle, quote "Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself" out of context (Leviticus 19:18; Matthew 19:19; 22:38). Have they not read the previous verse in Matthew 19:19? Verse 18 says, "Thou shalt not commit adultery."

The truth is that if you love your neighbor as yourself, you will speak up and warn him of the dangers of what he or she is doing. We must warn of God's judgment as well as the immoral influence on the traditional family values as accepted by all God fearing, Jesus Christ loving people

Freedom of speech is indeed a great blessing. Atheists, as well as false prophets within the church, do not like what Phil Robertson is saying and they are quick to go public and denounce him. They should practice what the preach, and by the same standard they use for themselves, should not condemn him in any way.

The homosexuals believe they have the right to shove their agenda down everyone else's throat and woe unto anyone who dares to raise a finger against them. I hope that the Duck Dynasty people will abandon their contract with the "bigots" at A&E Network and be accepted without political harassment by Fox or The Blaze of some other family oriented network that will not be intimidated by political correctness.

Proverbs 13:34 says, "Righteousness exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people."

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Psalm 11:3 says, "If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?" All that goes on in our home and family life is a vital part of the foundations of the nation. I believe that no matter how good our Constitution and laws, no matter how liberal our education including how much money we pour into it, if it does nothing to build up the relationships and morals of the family unit in the home, society will fail.
"God was once our glory, but now the flesh is our glory."

Unfortunately, our state education system sides with those who want to destroy our nation's moral absolutes and godly values. The Bible, prayer, true Christianity, and all the principles of moral godliness that were accepted and revered by our founding fathers are now shunned, despised, and fought against. And to our own peril and shame.

Our nation is hell bent on taking its clothes off (nudity). Pop stars become famous through revealing all and depravity fills the minds of our youth. God was once our glory, but now the flesh is our glory. As our glory goes down, so our morals go down. Even the so-called "church" permits and accepts an ever increasing flaunting of the flesh.

Men, the Bible addresses godly moral values, marriage, family life, and home values. I believe that, more than ever, the preachers of today's church must address the values of the home and family. Not only the preachers, but every Christian father and mother must arise and take their stand for these most important values.

If you observe your children dressing indiscreetly, do something about it. If you discover your children are listening or watching that which is inappropriate for godliness, do something about it. Pray about it. And address the matter NOW!

Malachi 4:6 says, "And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse."

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, while listening to O'Reilly discussing the equality of life in America on Fox News Channel last night, the general opinion was that those who had a reasonably good standard of living and education were undoubtably better off than those who did not.

The home life of the disadvantaged was also discussed and it was generally agreed that this was a main obstacle to the creation of equality within the general population. It became obvious that no one had any answers to this problem. The government pours billions of dollars into the education system and yet there are still multitudes, because of the problems of family life, who remain disadvantaged and therefore not equal. I believe this problem can be largely resolved by the influence of Christ coming through a church that walks in revival and that influences the homes and families of its people.

Whenever, in the history of the world, there has been a true revival of Christianity it has been documented that the standard of living has dramatically increased. This is verified by the Reformation Series which document Christian Revivals. Men, we must have a true revival that affects our own homes before we can even think of evangelizing the world.

State and secular education is not the real answer to creating a higher standard of equality. Even home education, if it does not incorporate the teachings of the Bible and Christ , will not improve the values and morals of home life and degeneration of values and morals will still occur.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Isn't it satisfying to walk into a church where you can actually feel the love of God flowing? We should experience this same atmosphere in our home.

Men, when it does not happen in our home, how can it possibly happen in our church gatherings? When we take care to create the atmosphere of God's love flowing in our home, each family brings their portion of this love to the corporate gathering. This creates a glorious and explosive experience for all to enjoy. In this presence of love, the worship and preaching takes on a whole new meaning of life and everyone feels refreshed.

On the other hand, if we allow negative moods, arguments, fightings, and squabblings to dominate our home, we will carry this same spirit to the corporate gather. This squelches the atmosphere of God's love from flowing.

Men, I believe we have a solemn responsibility to make sure that each one in our family is not deliberately or ignorantly stifling God's love from flowing. This is why we must put into operation in our home the things that assist the release of God's love--Morning and Evening Devotions, encouraging each family member to personally take time to daily see the Lord,. and putting on the whole armor of God in order to resist bad moods, tempers, hateful and critical language, and the worldly media that feeds the flesh.

To have God's love flowing in the home is far too important to dampen down or squelch out.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, don't be an atmosphere breaker. Psalm 133 1-3 says, "Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity! It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments; as the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the Lord commanded the blessing, even life forevermore."

People can spend a lot of money on the decor of a house, and I am not opposed to this for it can help the atmosphere, even as beautiful music builds an atmosphere. However, it's very surface. To have a real true "Home, Sweet Home" atmosphere it takes fathers and others, along with their children, to be constantly filled with the love of God.

When love is flowing it creates a rich and beautiful atmosphere. Love is not sterile. It is tangible. It pulsates and throbs with unity and peace. This love is something you can actually feel. It is not physical, yet it affects the physical and expresses itself through each individual in order to bless others with acts of lovingkindnesses.

However, this atmosphere of love, this jewel of beauty, this crown of all crowns can be squelched, dampened, and grieved by thoughtless, selfish, prideful, worldly, moody, and carless individuals who have not learned how to value this precious treasure of all treasures.

Men, I believe it is very important to teach our families how to appreciate and value the atmosphere of love. There is life, laughter, and healing in the atmosphere of love. You cannot afford to be without it. We must guard against being a loving atmosphere breaker.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, many Christians homes lack the godly atmosphere that is so vital to the well-being of the whole family. Opulence and grandeur tend to stimulate our fleshly senses, and yet do nothing to minister to the needs of the inner man. It would surprise us to know how many of the mansions of the nation are filled with tension, strife, selfishness, independence, unhappiness, and sadness. In many cases, everyone is doing their own thing. Wealth does not create a lasting atmosphere that ministers life to the spirit. It can be very surface. I am not saying that a mansion cannot be filled with the atmosphere of love, for indeed it can. Jesus said, "In my father's house are many mansions" (John 14:2). Everyone one of these mansions is filled with a loving and godly atmosphere.

The atmosphere I am talking about does not come from the mansion itself, but rather from the hearts of the people living in it. I believe it would be better to live in a tent where there is genuine true love than in a beautiful mansion with out. However, both cases can lack it, and both cases can have it.

The mansion does not manufacture satisfying love, and yet many people think they would be happy and satisfied by living in a mansion and that somehow it will minister to their inner needs. The love that ministers to the inner man, that heals his wounds and comforts his heart and soul comes only from God and should flow like a river through us to everyone in our home.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

"And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but THE GREATEST OF THESE is charity (love.)."

Men, there is no doubt that the doctrines of faith, hope, and love are important and daily abiding doctrines. If we put greater emphasis on other doctrines rather than these three major doctrines, we do so to our own disadvantage and peril. Putting it plainly, we need to be men of faith, hope, and love. But, the greatest of all these is to be men of love.

Can I ask you honestly? Is this the greatest truth in your life? Are you indeed a most loving man? Does your wife experience this about you ? Do your children experience this about you? If not, why not?

Everyone one we contact in our lives--our family, neighbors, and communities should know and experience when they meet with us that we are a most loving man. At least, we should be men who make this our chief objective in life. We may not have arrived yet, but we press forward with the help of the Holy Spirit to reach the goal.

Because love is the greatest of all abiding truths, don't you think we should make this truth our greatest matter for prayer? I believe so. It is not so important what church we attend, how much knowledge of the Scriptures we have, or how much zeal we have for God, but rather, how much love flows through us in our home, church, and communities.

How great is your love today?

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, there is no better way to serve the Lord, our family, our fellow Christians, and all others than through the love of God. All other ways, whether dramatic, heroic, sacrificial, expensive, sensational, or admirable, can never hold a candle to the true love of God demonstrated in Jesus Christ--His life, crucifixion, and resurrection on our behalf.

Not only is this love the MOST EXCELLENT WAY but it is also the MOST EXCELLENT LOVE. There are two main types of love expressed in the Greek in the New Testament. Agape love, which Paul accurately describes in 1 Corinthians 13, the love which gives and expects nothing in return.

The other kind of love is phileo love which means "to be a friend, have affection for, personal attachment." It is often called "brotherly love."

Men, the greatest and most excellent love is agape love where personal reward, acclamation, or honor is not even thought of. It is a pure love where you do not consider yourself, but only the object of your love. This is the most excellent love.

We must give this love our fullest attention. We must not be casual or half-hearted about this MOST EXCELLENT LOVE and MOST EXCELLENT WAY.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, in concluding this great chapter, 1 Corinthians 13 on the subject of love, the Apostle Paul states in verse 8 that prophecies, speaking in tongues, and knowledge shall vanish away, but God's agape love will never fail.

How tempting it is for us to allow the good to become the enemy of the best. Are we content as fathers to role model that which is good and miss out on that which is excellent? Men, I believe our families need fathers who have their spiritual priorities in such a place that this kind of love will be at the top of all virtues. There is nothing greater than love, for love is the predominate virtue of God's character.

The Apostle John in 1 John 4:7-8 states, "Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God. He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love." God is love personified.

To be a "good father" is not good enough. Our families need loving fathers. They don't only need gifted fathers, knowledgeable fathers, prophetic fathers, hearing fathers, tongues speaking/interpreting fathers, faith that moves mountains fathers, as good as these things are. They need loving fathers who reflect and represent the greatest likeness of our Heavenly Father.

Love is par excellence.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, the devil and the world point to the cross of Christ and say, "Love failed. It ended upon a cross. It is foolishness." 1 Corinthians 1:18 says, "For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God." To us who are saved, the cross means "unfailing love." We know the love God has given us to role model, first in our own home and then to the world, is the love that "never fails."

The truth is that love that involves sacrifice and death to self is the love that never fails. This is Calvary love. This is what Jesus meant when He spoke in Matthew 10:38-39, "And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me. He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it."

The devil meant the cross of Christ to be the biggest failure in the history of the world. Instead, the cross became the greatest triumph in the history of the world, for dying love never fails. Calvary love cannot fail. It is impossible for it to fail.

The devil, the wisdom of this world, and even false religion laughs and scoffs at Calvary love that endures the cross and despises its shame. But, God Himself approves it and crowns it with the highest honor.

Men, we must, at all costs, role model to our wife and family this sacrificing love that never fails.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, no matter how bleak and stormy the horizon of life may appear, never give up loving. Even when the object or objects of your love refuse to acknowledge your acts of love, and you are forced to be shut out of their lives, never stop being a loving person. The rejecters of your love are the losers. But, you can be the winner because you never give in to hate, spite, and a host of evil things that the rejecters of love get into.

We need to remember that there are many that reject God's love and are the worst off for doing so. One could easily think that God's love failed. It is true that some fail to give the correct response, but no one in hell will be able to point the finger at God and say, "God, you did not love me." God has only to point their attention to Calvary's cross to show them how much He loves. God never gives up on HIs love. I do not for one moment think that God enjoys to see even one sinner in hell. God's love never fails. The rejecters of Christ are the rejecters of His unfailing love.

Did God give up loving Israel when he turned His love toward the Gentiles? No. Isaiah 49:15-16 says, "Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee. Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me." And Romans 11:1 says, "Hath God cast away his people? God forbid... God hath not cast away his people which he foreknew."

Even when your love may have been despised and rejected for a long time and you have had to turn to others who will receive your love, never give up loving. Never permit the battle you are going through to turn you into an unloving and unforgiving person. Your love in Christ is forever unfailing. It is forever forgiving. In some cases it may be forever rejected, but rejection has no authority to change you and stop Christ's love in you from always flowing.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, the love that God has for us and wants us to role model to our family, as well as to our fellow man, is a love that endures all testings and trials that come our way. We live in a time of epidemic marriage breakdown and the love of many Christians is waxing cold, not only toward their spouse, but also toward Christ (Matthew 24:12).

Men, our children desperately need parents who will stick to their love for one another "come what may." We may have to endure great financial loss, rising health care costs, the loss of employment, friends who have turn against us, or perhaps the loss of a loved one. All these losses can be most difficult to endure, but none should be allowed to in anyway limit our love and commitment to one another. In fact, all these trials can be used to draw us close to each other and to become more dependent on one another for mutual encouragement and wisdom.

I do not believe that God expects a woman to endure a violent husband who could do her physical or mental harm. Nor does God expect a woman to endure a husband who perverts his marriage relationship with pornography, homosexuality, or other sexual perversion. However, there are such things as lacking wisdom and certain immaturities that God calls us to endure with one another. We are fallen creatures. We all make mistakes and blow it from time to time. We must make allowances and not expect perfection from one another.

The love that "endures all things" is talking about the trials that come our way in life that will not compromise our personal salvation and righteousness. We are told to "resist the devil," not to endure him!

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

The Greek word for "endure" is "hupomeno" meaning "to stay under, to remain, to undergo, i.e. bear trials, to have fortitude, to persevere, to abide, to take patiently, to suffer." This love that "endures all things" was most excellently role modeled by our Savior, Jesus Christ throughout His pilgrimage on earth.

Oh the love that drew salvation's plan,
Oh the love that brought it down to man,
Oh the mighty gulf that God did span,
At Calvary.

The love that so richly dwelt in Christ our Savior was not a fluffy, flaky, wimpy love that melted like chocolate ice cream at the first sign of trials and temptations. We would be still in our sins if His love was not enduring enough to submit to His Father's will and accomplish His death upon the cross.

Men, the same love that enabled Christ to endure the cross is the same love that has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit to enable us to keep loving on and on, no matter what may try to extinguish it (Romans 5:5).

No matter how big the crowds may be in the church, no matter how attractive the sermons, no matter how great the offerings, no matter how big the outreach programs, if we do not have the love that is enduring enough to keep our marriage and family together, then it is all false and a sham. As Jesus said, it's hypocritical! He said to the scribes and Pharisees in Matthew 23:27, "Hypocrites! for ye are like unto whited sepulchres, which indeed appear beautiful outward, but are within full of dead men's bones, and of all uncleanness."

We desperately need a revival of the love that endures all things. When the crowds come to repentance, then we are talking about Biblical revival. Crowds are not usually attracted to repentance. It takes a sovereign move of God for this to happen.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, as we seek to role model the love that "hopes all things" we can expect Scriptural blessings to come upon us. For example:

Good courage and a strengthened heart (Psalm 31:24).
God's eye will be upon us (Psalm 33:18).
God's mercy will be upon us (Psalm 33:22; 130:7).
God will hear us (Psalm 38:15).
He will lift us up from discouragement and sadness (Psalm 42:5, 11; 43:5).
He will hold us up (Psalm 119:116).
We will be happy (Psalm 146:5).
The Lord will take pleasure in us (Psalm 14:11).
We will have gladness (Proverbs 10:28).
We will be blessed (Jeremiah 17:7-8). And what is the blessing? Here is the full Scripture, "For he shall be as a tree planted by the waters, and that spreadeth out her roots by the river, and shall not see when heat cometh, but her leaf shall be green; and shall not be careful in the year of drought, neither shall cease from yielding fruit."
We will have a song in our hearts (Hosea 2:15).
We will rejoice (Romans 5:2; Romans 12:12).
We will not be ashamed Romans 5:5).
We are saved through hope (Roman s 8:24).
We will have joy and peace (Romans 15:13).
We will have patience (1 Thessalonians 1:3).

Men, Romans 15:4 is a great Scripture, for it encourages us as fathers to make sure that we, and our families, should be strongly immersed in the Scriptures. It says, "For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the Scriptures might have hope."

How can we have the love that "hopes all things" if we do not know the Scriptures? It is in the Scriptures that we find the "all things" of comfort and hope. Fathers, this is why the Lord is exercising me to exhort you to not fail to have Family Devotions (Family Bible Reading and Prayer) with your family each day. This is part of role modeling the love that hopes all things.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

The love that we role model to our families is not a hopeless love. The words "all things" are vast in their scope. They are as vast as Matthew 11:24, "Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them."

The phrase "all things " is incredible and could include vast multitudes of personal desires, as well as impersonal. However, we cannot expect God to answer any prayer that is outside of His character and will for our lives. We are only entitled to hope for "all things" that are within the boundaries of His will.

For example it would be a false hope to fall in love with an unbeliever and expect God to answer our prayers to meet our needs in this matter. If we go into a joint business with an unbeliever and expect God to bless us, we may well be very disappointed. God may want to bless you, but may not want to bless the unbeliever, and you may end up losing all.

To get to the point, we fathers are to role model a love, that despite all hardships, persecutions, nay-sayers, and negative circumstances, always keeps on believing God, never quits praying, and always keeps hoping for the best.

Men, do your children observe you as a hopeful father, always optimistically hoping that one day all godly desires and prayers will be answered?

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

Men, another important ingredient to love that we as fathers and husbands need to role model is hope. If we do not physically demonstrate this hope dimension of love, it remains an abstract and dormant something that cannot be explained. The Apostle Paul, in revealing the all important "agape" love, states that it "hopes all things."

Hope is an unfulfilled expectation that we trust will one day be fulfilled and continue to be fulfilled. It is something we believe for but have not yet fully received.

When we fell in love with our wife, we hoped that our advancements toward her and our very special interest in her would arouse a reciprocal love. We eagerly and anxiously hoped that one day, in the not too distant future, we would be engaged and married. Likewise, we are to love our wife and family with an ever continuing hope. We believe that our love for them will produce an ever increasing and meaningful intimacy, as well as rich relationships, that will be mutually satisfying to all parties.

In this way, hope not only has the present in mind, but also a better future.

Be encouraged.

Colin Campbell

WHO WE TRAIN OUR SONS TO BE AT HOME IS WHAT THEY WILL BE IN THIS WORLD!

One writer states, "Every man steps from the home door into the social, moral, and civil world. What he is upon the home step he will be in the field of life."